Self-improvement DAY =Þ
After losing my ‘laughing gas’, I got down on to some serious thinking and analyzing of my self. Here are some of the must do’s and don’ts for me to prepare myself for the next time around (IF it comes):
- Must not be so full of myself although it’s just in words and not in person, it can really get on people’s nerves
- Must not be so blur of my surroundings (the world and people’s feelings): i.e. be more sensitive and read/listen to the news!!
- Must not eat too much fried stuffs (ha-ha!)
- Must not laugh too much and too loud. It’s very annoying, uncultured and un-ladylike. (Sob sob…. Oh, it’s just as well since I lost my laughing gas anyway!)
- Must exercise!! For a healthier living and gorgeous body. (Every guy dreams of having a trophy wife. So, if you’re capable in giving him that, why not? Everyone can live with more bonuses in life anyway! =D)
- Must love dogs (no intention of copyrighting the movie title). Well, at least not be afraid to touch them. Of course, provided the guy MUST LOVE HORSES too! =D
- Must be the Woman I’m made to be and need to be and not the Man I want to be.
- Must practice the patience and understanding that I so claim to have towards my love ones.
- Must learn to give unconditionally even though it will break your heart at the end because if you trust and have faith in Him, whatever you give is not really out of you but of Him. In order to know if you are on the right path of giving, read the last MUST DO.
Last but definitely not in the very least but in fact, must be in the above all, top foremost,
- Pray crazily to Jesus to keep you sane when your other half is driving you insane, to bring out your love when your other half is pressing it down, to keep you going on without regrets no matter what your other half did or is doing to you and to bring your other half together closer to Him who has brought both of you together for a reason. So, discover THE reason, together!
- Actually, that can’t be my last must do. My last must do is, DO all the above! Ha-ha…. I actually listed more but I left my list in the office and I’m not sure when I’ll be able to update my blog in the near future so I thought I’d better just post this up sooner than…. NEVER! And also, I would all of you to add-on (which I hope to do myself IF I can find the time!) to or comment on my list to help me through this. Please give me some feedback. Hate to repeat these same mistakes again later in life. Every change and evolution takes time and some varies from a shorter to a longer time. So, the sooner I get to it the sooner I’ll make the people’s lives around me less miserable.
Thanks peeps!!
Love lots…..
June 10th, 2006 at 5:14 am
hmm… Stay pretty ok? =)